-------- "This is the time for action not only words, use your God given gifts to develop this country, dont be afraid to speak up, and feel PROUD THAT U R EGYPTIAN." -------- Mohaly, Feb 2011

Monday, May 26, 2008

411) What Men Want - Episode 6 !

P.S. Is it a coincidence that episode sex, ops six, is being written from Sharm ;)

This "want" for sure won't surprize any of you, "Sex".

Men know what they like in bed and tend to stick to it. The adventurous sexual appetite in most men isn't there even if they are convinced it is. Men in reality are quite conservative. Sexually adventurous has nothing to do with having lots of partners and more to do with the things they will try with the same partner.

We have a big contradiction in Egypt regarding women and sex! Men want women to be somehow experienced or know how to please him, and in the same time someone who is a sex naive, and consider this "naive" as a sign of well-mannered female. I really hate men who classify women some for sex and others for marriage!!

I see sex as the ultimate peak of showing love, so sex without love is a short-sighted fun mechanism. Many women in Egypt are raised perceiving sex as a taboo, and afraid of it. It should be treated like food and drink. It is desired and should be wanted but within the limits set by God.

I'd consider sex to a marriage like salary to a job. It is not the only- and may not be the most important- criteria in choosing the job, but you cant accept the job without it!

(eli lesa masek nafso! bas mesh 3aref le7ad emta!)


omar said...

gamda 7etet el sex wel salary :)

ya mohaly el banat fatahet we mesh 3arefeen nelemohom aslan, howa lesa feh banat betetkesef!

Shimaa Gamal said...

Bonjour :)
I have been waiting for that episode and I am completely satisfied with it :) As for once I was psychic enough to read men's minds.
Putting sex as number six in the list really made my day :) As some men like to place sex as the number one priority. They, elly homa el some men, like to appear in the picture of sex addict creatures which is something related to the community perception of a man. A man is a man because he can have sex. Typically, they will always say that they are the gifts God gave to women (tab3an because kol wa7ed fihom 3antar zamanoh ya3ny). But the truth is exactly what you said; most of them are quiet conservative. They would dream about that perfect woman, but when they get to meet that perfect woman they will always try to limit the experience to a one time test.
Sex to marriage like a salary to a job :) awesome, begad ya mohaly this post made my day
Enjoy Sharm we khaleek sabet 3ala mabda2ak ;)

Shimaa Gamal said...

Omar :)
Yes, lessa fi banat betetkesef. El kesoof maloosh 3elaka bel knowledge :) wala 7ata el khebra if that matters. EL kesoof dah mechanism mo3akad :) beyrbot e7merar el wesh befkra tahya fi el dema3' ma3 e7tmalyet eny el shakhs el odam el bent yefhamha :)

Mona said...

The analogy between sex and salary gets kind of interesting in the long term because as people age they usually advance in their careers and their salaries get higher but with age their sex drive get lower.

Just a thought!

Mohaly said...

Shaimaa --> ya rab dayman to make your day :)

Mona ---> Actually this is applicable to the mid-age when salaries are good, but when you grew older and retire, your income will sharply fall (if you dont have other assets). Samething with sex, where it should reach its peak in the 30s & 40s, then drop sharply in the 60s and 70s (hence we need other assets of love and care to compensate).

Tamer Mokhtar said...

7alwtak ya mohaly :)

tab khod de ba2a, mostly i agree with you, but i have a case that looks not working with your way of relating sex as money to work!

so the point is:
imagine that someone is an actor/actress :) and for sure not for the normal silly movies, i'm talking about porno movies! more exciting right? and yet profissional :D

the question is:
would you still relate sex as money to work? acutlly here sex will not be taken as money for work, it's the work itself! wala eah?

the conclusion:
sex is like gas for car, it has also 80, 90, 92 and 95, but u know what, that i relaized en zeyadet el as3ar not applicable here :D so you can be in 95 and get better performance without paying 2.5 LE per unit (7elwa unit de):D

omar said...

el porno dol welad 60x70, ya3ne yetbesto we kaman yakdo felous and become celebrities!

tab ya titi feen el 30% el 3elawa :)

Tamer Mokhtar said...

7alwtak ya Omar! ana hadelak door el botola fe el film ely gai :)
bass khazen shewaya 95 hehheh

el 30% de 3ala mowazafeen el 7okoma, wel 7agat de me7taga tekom fit we kaman performing tamam!

de cinema ya gama3a mesh ay kalam

Shimaa Gamal said...

Mohaly, you just made my day with the retirement plan kaman :)

TiTi, betbherny :) bas mesh be3eed 3ala sa7eb nazryet el 3 times a day :)
If sex is like gas to a car, ne2dar ne2ool en men are like cars :)
fi menha el BMW, we fi menha el old beatles. bas el montasher el 128 :) som3a bas :) la manzar wala performance bas betfok zan2a :p

شهد الكلمات said...

ماشاء الله ماشاء الله البوست ده عليه اقبال جماهيري كبيييييير ;)يا تري لية !!!!!
البوستين اللي فاتوا كانوا بينشوا

لا و المذكر السالم متوافر الحقيقة ماصدق و نط في الحلل

عموما انا راي يعني لو ربنا مش رايد بالجنس خير للبشرية ماكنش اتوجد من اساسه او ماكنش بقي فيه متعة للطرفين كان بقي شيء بيحصل بأي شكل من الاشكال مش محسوس عشان يتم اعمار الكون و خلاص لكن ربنا جعله باحساس لامتاع الطرفين و يبقي في بينهم ميثاق غليظ.و مافيش خلجة من خلجات النفس مابيكونش ربنا حاططها لسبب "و له في ذلك حكم" ولا اية؟؟
بس المهم ان الزوجين يتفقوا مع بعض ان مايكونش في كسوف بنهم و انهم يحترموا رغبات بعض و مايكونش في انانية من قبل الزوج
و ليس في الزواج حرج

لكن الكلام ده للزواج فقط اما الحاجات التانية فدي ذي ما رسولنا الكريم شبهها زي الراجل اللي قدامه اللحم النضيف الطازة و مش ياكله و ياكل اللحم النتن المعفن


Tamer Mokhtar said...

u have a point ya Shaimaa.

men like a car...mmm it can be, that's why man can take more than one at the same time, law el 3afsha tamam.

and the difference between 128 & BMW is the engine and its injection how fast is can burn, and go speed!

But usually what reach faster here is not welcome and that for sure may affect its reputation so I’d prefer to be zeztafa :d not bmw!

Shimaa Gamal said...

hmmm, you have a good point ya titi. It is the engine that counts. I am not too much into car mechanics but I can assure you that it is not only about the difference in engine's sizes that counts in the comparison between the BMW and the 128, but also the how effecient and smooth both engines work, el 128 bet3tal keteer, wel engine bey7tag seyana mostamera, el BMW engine tensah, sha3'al, smooth and will always get the job done. And who said en el BMW can't go slow. The key word is tork :) el mohem sa7bet el engine ya zeztafa

omar said...

howa ento betekalemo 3ala eih belzabt ;)

Mohaly is putting the post in the most elegant way ever to talk about sex, bas e7na -wa 3ala ra2sena Titi- fata7na 3al rabe3!

Tamer Mokhtar said...

ya Omar:
eah ra2yak fe el 4X4?
so2al mohem, sa7?

el far2 en BMW leha tawkeel, el 128 kol wa7ed wakeel nafso :)

BMW is a german car, that has big list of things to check before turning it on, and usually small problems will not make functioning, 128 functioning even if it doesn’t have oil.

128 mostly made in EGypt, which is a plus when is comes to sex (functioning) :D

imagine 128 made an accident with BMW what will happen? :)

Shimaa Gamal said...

Ok ya Titi :) ana we telemezy Eblees handtar nansa7eb mn el engine talk le 7een shera2 sayara 128 and another one BMW. enta 3aref el tagroba khayer daleel.

Agarab wagelak :) el cars tab3an 3ashan Omar mayfhamsh 3'alat :)

Danna said...

WTF-------pardon my french,

Masters and Johnson hadretac? You sing of the wants and the needs of 'all' egyptian males, in such a bestial and tonka toyesque manner that its nauseating. But it doesn't surprise me that another egyptian male has to resort to the job market to explain his sex life or the lack there of from the looks of it.

amina said...

If you are talking about Titi comments, it is for fun, and if u r talking about mohaly, i advise u to read the whole series to know that he is summing up what men want in general and he was honest enough in the first episode to say that men want everything, but we need to take one step at a time to discuss it, and this is the 6th episdoe so it is "bestial" wants only.

Besara7a, I am not exactly following up with your point!

omar said...


a2ta3 dera3i law kont fahem 7aga. Howa it seems that you are attacking but ana mesh fahem khales. what the hell is this language, and what is wrong with u and males?!

danna said...

Well instead of using such a preachy/professorial tone. He should have explained that it was his personal opinion/experience, instead of addressing it as 'all men.'

It just feeds into what the west depicts and deems as the quintessential 'arab' male------A picayune and base individual that exists to feed his appetite, ego and libido..................And as far as the on going twisted analogy of engines and sex it confounds me, to each his own.

cheers :)

Tamer Mokhtar said...

Danna you have a point :)

but as you see it's a blog and we have sort of a culture here, simply everyone has the right to expose its OWN opinion and thoughts which simply fitting with blogging core idea!
No one is right and no one is wrong, some serious and some fun :)

And you just jumped in the fun part, if you have time try to browse the previous 410 post that Mohaly published before!
And yet we all Arabs and this somehow represents our identity which for sure different (not right not wrong)

Sorry ya gama3a if i talked in serious tone, have fun :)

One question, how you found this blog, just curious :)

Shimaa Gamal said...

Hey Danna
What’s pissing you off? Is that how civilized people discuss things? Even the worst of things could be discussed in a more decent way. Anyway unfortunately decency is rare to be found these days.
That is episode six of a series of episodes answering a question that we, the female readers of this blog posed, what do men want? If you cared to go through the rest of the episodes you would have known that he clearly stated that this is his pure personal opinion. And even if he didn’t state it clearly it is clear that he is pouring his personal experience as a man and as a member in a community of other men. He is capable to tell what men want. Surprisingly enough what he said till now isn’t new, and could be applied to any given man, Egyptian, Arab or even a westerner. Men are men, the same way women are women. The western bible of how to deal with the opposite sex (aka, men are from Mars and women are from Venus) applies on any given Adam and any given Eve.
Chill out, the engine metaphor is a joke. It is fun to have a laugh every now and then. And it is always fun to tease when Tamer is around. Men as cars with engines this is the funniest thing I read in a month.
Just a little tip, whenever you decide to attack an idea, there is no need to start with the personal approach. And never ever attack something without reading, because you got carried away with the engine and you missed the retirement plan.

Cheers :)

danna said...

Ms. Gamal,

1 Nothing is ehm ehm quote unquote pissing me off
2 It seems that you are positing your comment in a hostile manner which I will choose to ignore.
3 You choosing a supermarket paperback as the authoritative codex on relationships is amusing.
4 you don't know me so don't judge me 'ya bintee.'
5 and as far as your parlance with tamer is concerned, I did say to each his own.
6 AND HONEY CALM DOWN------1 xanax 3 times a day as needed for anxiety should suffice.

-----tamer, my friend goes to AUC and sent me the link :D.....i'm in LA

and yes I did read the other five posts and Mohaly does seem level headed and cogent. and certainly runs an impeccable blog, sorry if I came of a bit crass.

cheers :)---------Ms. Gamal i know you're only defending your friend and mean well xxx :D

Embee said...

When I first loaded the page, I looked at the title, then time of posting & number of comments. Hard to kick habit. It first loaded as 2, then the other 2 automagically showed up. It didn't make sense for the post to have 2 comments only *grin*

One thing I have to get off of my chest - my younger brother (25 y/o) has been relentlessly quoting Men are from Mars etc, and it's driving me up the WALL! Epitome of BS.. yeah.. I'm done [/rant]

Mohaly said...

Good Morning,

Although it was expected that this episode will have the higher comments than the previous ones but I didnt expect it to be the fierce.

Danna ---> Anyway, thank you Daana for your input (for or against), but in order to gain the viewer you should critize not only attack coz I can tell that people here acted like that as a "re-action", not beacause of "what" you said, but the "way" you said it.
In all cases I'd like to welcome you to the blog. As tamer said, there is a room for all opinions here.

By the way, I had my junior year in college in LA (UC). I was staying in Westwood near Welshire Blvd. It was one of the best times in my life.

Rest of Readers ---> Thank You for your words and encouraging opinion. It was a good chance to know your real feedback :)


Tamer Mokhtar said...

Ya Mohaly :)
I'm still expecting comments from you about these relations, money to work or gas to car?

for money you have to define currncy and for gas as well :)

we saba7 gameel :D

danna said...

Thank you for that gracious welcome you are a true gentleman.
Wow, so you traversed the madness of LA huh…I’m half Swedish and
Egyptian. Originally from NY, I’m in LA finishing up my second year of
Medical school. Again I apologize if I came off a bit boorish…I guess I simply had a
Pavlovian response to your post as my father was always over protective and a bit imperious.


Geeee said...

Wow, I guess I missed almost 300 posts or something, I was just brushing my teeth :D

Okay, Leonardo Da Vinci mentioned sex as:

"The art of procreation and the members employed therein are so repulsive, that if it were not for the beauty of the faces and the adornments of the actors and the pent-up impulse, nature would lose the human species."

Sex is okay but I don't agree that it's like gas for cars wel kalam dah :D for me sex is to be involved emotionally & physically into the most purity explanation of how you love your partner...

we are not animals end of the day, we are humans, and humans can't live without emotions.

we motshakeren ya 7ag da vinci 3ala el moda7'la de ;D

Mohaly said...

Thank You Daana :) and welcome again... my mail in blog profile.

P.S. nice combination Arab-Euro-American!


Titi --- A2olak sex and love to2oli gas we zeet :) bas law lazem then it should be octane 98 coz sex is the crown of love and it deserves the best quality.

Gee---- yaaaaah, saba7 el kheir

Tamer Mokhtar said...

Ya mohaly ya 98 ya!!! :D

we da enta garabto? leeh ay side effects? sha'3al ma3a el masryeen?

omar said...

mohaly to 3omoro pioneer ya titi 7ata fel 98, bas e7na 3arefeen el beer we ghatah ... single and virgin hehe ;)