868) و يبقى الألم ..

كم من طريق سَلَكت؟! ..
كم من مشاعر أهدَرت؟! ..
كم من دموع أذرَفت؟! ..
 و يبقى الألم.

864) الحب !

عندما تفقد تماما إحساسك بالزمان .. بالمكان ... و يخدرك شعور عجيب بالآمان 

عندها ... تفقد كل شئ و تملك كل شئ ... و تشعر بلا شئ .. سواه 

‫#‏الحب_هو‬

M.O.H.@.L.Y

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Happy Blog Anniversary
27 February 2007 - 2015

863) خناقة كافية !

مرة فى يوم مش فاكر إيه

عزمت عقلى و قلبى ع الكافية

و بعد ما عرفتهم على بعض ..

سابونى أنا و مسكوا فى بعض

عقلى يقوله تحب ليه 

و قلبى قاعد يضحك عليه

بيقوله أمال عايش ليه ..

و حياتك دى بتعمل بيها إيه

عقلى إتزرزر و عمل منظر

و كان هايلم الخلق عليه

قاله حياتى هى نجاحى ..

فى شغلى و إسمى و مالى يا بيه

قلبى زغرله و قاملوه و قالوه

إنت بجد مصدق نفسك

هى أشغالك على نجاحاتك ..

فى لحظة حب بتساوى إيه

عقلى بكى و جالى إشتكى

إن قلبى بيقسى عليه

و أنا من طيبتى أو من خيبتى ..

مش عارف أعمل فيهم إيه

عقلى بيكبر و قلبى بيضغر

و عاملين خناقة مع بعض

و أنا بتفرج و ساعات أهرج ..

و لا طايل و لا سما و لا أرض

M.O.H.@.L.Y

يونيو 2014

858) The Multi-Dimensional Love !

Couple of days ago I was chatting with a dear old friend and she asked me if I have loved before, and I said that Love is a multi-dimensional word and I am not sure that I have covered all its dimensions. So she asked me to define that, and I said:

"Love to be fully felt and understood it has to contain -randomly- respect, desire, itching, power & weakness, bitterness, missing, sharing, caring, lust, possession and sacrifice (willingly), mutual understanding and appreciation, common plans and chaos ... It is something that you cant see or touch, but can feel its effect on everything within you and around you, it takes you to another dimension ... and it just doesn't happen, it accumulates till you one day realize that you r way deep in love and u cant tell when did it start and how will it end..."

Am I right in describing it ?!

M.O.H.@.L.Y

839) فـــــاكِر؟ !

أول مرة مش زى أى مرة 

مهما كانت حلوة ... مهما كانت مرة

فاكر أول مرة نجحت؟

فاكر أول مرة سافرت؟

فاكر أول مرة عرفت ..

إن الناس من جوة غير من برة؟

فاكر أول يوم مدرسة؟

فاكر الدنيا و هى كويسه؟

فاكر صاحبك اللى حبك ..

و كان دايما حواليك و جنبك؟

فاكر ضحكة أول بنت عرفتها؟

أول وردة؟ أول رعشة لما لمستها؟

فاكر لما عملت بطاقة ..

و إفتكرت إنك خلاص بقيت حاجة؟

فاكر لما إتخرجت من الجامعة؟

 فاكر الفرحة؟ فاكر الدَمعَة؟

فاكر أول مرتب خدته ..

و إزاى فرحت و إنت بتعِده؟

فاكر لما إفتكرت إنك حبيت بجد

  و إنكسر قلبك و إتوجعت؟

فاكر لما من ربنا قربت ..

و تُبت و وقعت، و وقعت و تُبت؟

فاكر لما بقى ليك فى المجتمع مركز

 بس فضلت وحدتك هى اللى فى المركز؟

فاكر لما قررت إن الحياة لازم تتعاش ..

و طلّعت نفسك من غرفة الإنعاش؟

عارف إنت لسه فاكر ده كله ليه؟

و لا إنت مش فاكر إنت عايش ليه؟

M.O.H.@.L.Y

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833) إنسان ؟!!

ما زال قلبى دافئا 

و مازالت روحى حرة

فما بال جسدى هامدا 

و ما بال نفسى مُرة

* * *

يضحكنى طفل و تثيرنى إمرأة

و يقشعر بدنى للاَذان

و عندما أخلو لنفسى

أشعر بأنى بارداَ كالأوثان

* * *

أمازلت بشراَ أنا

أم أصبحت حجرا صوان؟

أبالحب أحيا و بالرغبة أنتشى

أم أنا صنماَ فى جسد إنسان؟

  

Mohaly
رأس السنة 2012-2013

826) In Love & Respect ..!

Which is most needed Love or Respect ... If you have 2 choices only; would you live with someone who loves you but doesn't respect you enough, or someone who loves you but doesn't love you enough?


Dr. Emerson Eggerichs says: "We believe love best motivates a woman and respect most powerfully motivates a man. Research reveals that during marital conflict a husband most often reacts when feeling disrespected and a wife reacts when feeling unloved.  We asked 7,000 people this question: when you are in a conflict with your spouse or significant other, do you feel unloved or disrespected?  83% of the men said "disrespected."  72% of the women said, "unloved."  Though we all need love and respect equally, the felt need differs during conflict, and this difference is as different as pink is from blue!"


I personally if I cant have both as much, then I would choose Respect over love, as love can't stand for feeling disrespected (and that is a relative word from one person to another). If I don't feel respected, I can't even express love and care. 


What about you?


Mohaly

819) Do we know how to Love Her?

This question may look like it is out of context of what is going on in Egypt and the hot political war taking place on all fronts. However, I see that question in the CORE of the events. I am asking again Do we know how to love? I am afraid not ...

I have been involved in many discussions, public debates, and lectures whether I am attending or delivering, and I can say that most of what I have seen was about people hating each other for just having a different opinion. Discussions seemed to be more of trying to terminate the oponent instead of understanding or even considering the other point of view. No chance to talk, express, no willingness to communicate or negotiate or even educate! "Mooto Beghayzekom!!" What kind of motto is that?... Do we know how to love? I am afraid not ...

If we know how to love, we would have loved our country ... we would have shared, sacrificed, compromised, communicated, understood, supported, and respected each other, and as long this is not happening, I am afraid we don't know how to love her...

Mohaly

775) What is life without living?

What is a river without water? 

What is fire without heat?

What is a breathe without air?

What is wealth without money?

What is a city without streets?

What is a country without citizens?

What is a meal without taste?

What is a painting without colors?

What is a symphony without music?

What is a garden without flowers?

What is freedom without justice?

What is prayer without devotion?

What is love without passion?

What is a man without a woman? 

What is life without living?

Mohaly

763) Ana Ba7ebek ya Belady !

After exactly 1 month of our victory in the 1st battle of the revolution (stepping down of Mubarak), I can't find better than this song to share... In order not to forget our beloved martyrs and those who lost their eyes, and other body parts to give us the power to continue and win..

I can't hold my tears everytime I listen to this song ... just cant.... begad ...

Mohaly

754) Happy Egyptine's Day !

Let's dedicate this year's Valentine's Day to Egypt and loving Egypt...

Save the price of the gift and donate it to support the Egyptian economy or other Egyptians who need your help.. Sorry girls ;)

Let's celebrate it together today in Tahrir Square..

Mohaly


Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart.

Washington Irving (1783-1859)

-----> Our Revolution is not yet over...

746) About Love & Cheating !

What is Love? and why does cheating happen?
Interesting Analysis (keeping in mind cultural differences) that I am sharing with you to discuss.



Mohaly

706) Personal ::: Aslaha Betefre2 .. Lel2asaf !

For the last couple of weeks, the lyrics of Amr Diab's new single song Alsaha Betefre2 (It Makes such a difference) is sooooo much nagging into my mind... The song is about the need and difference made by the presence of a woman in a man's life. The last words I just cant forget...

Aslaha betefre2 men wa7da lewa7da
(it makes a difference from a woman to another) 
Fe Wa7hda betensaha bewa7da
(there is a woman whom you forget through another woman)
we Fe Wa7da Mabtetnseeh...
(and there is a woman whom you can't ever forget)

What happened to me, I thought I have passed this stage and deep need... It seems that I was fooling myself...mennak lelah ya Amr Diab!

Mohaly
(In Romantic Mode)

694) Hanging for Marriage !!

For 2 successive months, 2 Egyptians died the same way (one killed, and other committed suicide) and both because of having their proposals refused.
- The 1st one was Mohamed in Lebanon who killed his lover's family and the people punished him by hanging him in the street.
- The 2nd was Amr, the 30 years old guy who was refused by Mona's family 3 times, and then he decided to kill himself by hanging from Kasr El Aini Bridge.

I am wondering what is the relation between Hanging and Marriage?!
The weird thing is that quite significant number of the people who are married wants BARDO to commit suicide!!

Mohaly

658) FUN ::: 7abbak Bors !

Before we say goodbye to the Valentine's Week, I want to share this with you:

His Banner: Mai, Forgive me please. I sware to God that I love you.

Her Banner: 7abbak Bors !!

Comments please ..

(ya ret law feh explanation kaman in the comments)

Mohaly

595) Fawazeer Ramadan ::: "Om" El Donya !

Do Egyptians really love Egypt?

Is all this crtisism out of love or hate?

Are Egyptians critizing and willing to change and sacrify, or will they jump over the next opportunity to leave the country?

Do Egyptians really love Egypt?

Mohaly

576) In Love & Loving II !

It is soooo good to the extent that I can't even comment!

Mohaly

البعض نحبهم

لكن لا نقترب منهم ........ فهم في البعد أحلى

وهم في البعد أرقى .... وهم في البعد أغلى

والبعض نحبهم

ونسعى كي نقترب منهم

ونتقاسم تفاصيل الحياة معهم

ويؤلمنا الابتعاد عنهم

ويصعب علينا تصور الحياة حين تخلو منهم.

والبعض نحبهم

ونتمنى أن نعيش حكاية جميله معهم

ونفتعل الصدف لكي نلتقي بهم

ونختلق الأسباب كي نراهم

ونعيش في الخيال أكثر من الواقع معهم

والبعض نحبهم

لكن بيننا وبين أنفسنا فقط

فنصمت برغم الم الصمت

فلا نجاهر بحبهم حتى لهم لان العوائق كثيرة

والعواقب مخيفه ومن الأفضل لنا ولهم أن تبقى

الأبواب بيننا وبينهم مغلقه...

والبعض نحبهم

فنملأ الأرض بحبهم ونحدث الدنيا عنهم

ونثرثر بهم في كل الأوقات

ونحتاج إلى وجودهم ......كالماء ..والهواء

ونختنق في غيابهم أو الابتعاد عنهم

والبعض نحبهم

لأننا لا نجد سواهم

وحاجتنا إلى الحب تدفعنا نحوهم

فالأيام تمضي

والعمر ينقضي

والزمن لا يقف

ويرعبنا بأن نبقى بلا رفيق

والبعض نحبهم

لان مثلهم لا يستحق سوى الحب

ولا نملك أمامهم سوى أن نحب

فنتعلم منهم أشياء جميله

ونرمم معهم أشياء كثيرة

ونعيد طلاء الحياة من جديد

ونسعى صادقين كي نمنحهم بعض السعادة

والبعض نحبهم

لكننا لا نجد صدى لهذا الحب في

قلوبهــم

فننهار و ننكسر

و نتخبط في حكايات فاشلة

فلا نكرههم

ولا ننساهم

ولا نحب سواهم

ونعود نبكيهم بعد كل محاوله فاشلة

.. والبعض نحبهم ..

.. ويبقى فقط أن يحبوننا..

.. مثلما نحبهم

جبران خليل جبران

572) Personal ::: Khabteteen fel Ras!

sweet messages
nice emails
care and interest
from 1 side..

too much care..
daily asking..
from 1 side.

no not the same person..

one day both of them confessed that they love me!!
I have never said or made any signs to any, how come? and both on the same day!

What did I do wrong?

Mohaly

568) Love & Signs !

This is a beautiful video about how love can change our lives even through simple signs. I think TRUE love is a filter that holds back all the negative feelings and only passes the beautiful side of life.



Enjoy
Mohaly

P.S> Romantic People will cry from the overwhelming passion.

561) How much do you Love yourself ?!

I was wondering, how far do we love ourselves?

Do we love it more than anything in the world?
Do we love it to the extent that we can sacrifice anything for its sake?
Do we love it so much but less than other things that we can sacrifice ourselves for?
Do we love as we love other things?
Do we love it the least?
or Do we love it Not?

What is right? ... if you love yourself so much you will be accused of being selfish and if you don't love yourself, you won't be able to give love to others.. I personally see that we should love ourselves first, and build on this love to develop winning relations with others; i.e loving ourselves but not on the expense of others..

Mohaly