-------- "This is the time for action not only words, use your God given gifts to develop this country, dont be afraid to speak up, and feel PROUD THAT U R EGYPTIAN." -------- Mohaly, Feb 2011

Monday, July 13, 2009

579) 3asr El Hareem !!!

Do you know that we are the 3rd generation since pre-history that doesn't have "gawary" or "melk el yamin". For thousands of years men could legitimately have the right to have relations with women other than his wife. Now all that is over .. Is this good or bad news?!

P.S. lately I have met many people and read more than an article longing to the Hareem Age and feeling bad that they weren't living at that time!

Mohaly

Friday, July 10, 2009

578) Why don't we do it?!

when we know that we r wrong....
and we know what is the right thing to do ...
why the hell we don't do it ....
why is it so hard to do it?
?!

Mohaly

Tuesday, July 7, 2009

577) God Bless Marwa El Sherbini !

I don't think that the reaction of the Egyptians is exagerated as some people are claiming. I don't know if the word "glad' is appropriate here, but I am glad that at last we can show the world that terrorsim is not an Islamic or Arabic product, and our blood is not cheap or less important than the rest of the world.

Marwa was a young promising Egyptian girl who was just staring a small family and all her fault -from her killer's point of view- was that she is muslim and wearing Hijab! How fanatic is that!

In August 2008 Alex W. abused Marwa in a Dresden playground as “islamist”, “terrorist” and “bitch”, obviously of her wearing an Islamic headscarf. According to some sources Alex W. stated “You don’t deserve to live.” This was the reason that the Public Prosecutor filed an appeal, to achieve a higher degree of penalty with regard to the open xenophobic background of the felony. When the appeal was in negotiation, Alex W. surprisingly stabbed Marwa 18 times and so killed her..


The thing I don't understand is that how come such a scene happen in a German Court!!!!!

May Allah bless Marwa and her family, and we did the right thing, OUR VOICES HAVE TO BE HEARD!

Mohaly

واتهم ألماني من أصل روسي عمره 28 عاما بقتل مروة الشربيني في محكمة بمدينة دريسدن خلال نظر استئناف حكم صدر ضده لادانته بسبها.

وقال مكتب المدعي العام في دريسدن ان المصرية التي كانت تقيم في دريسدن مرافقة لزوجها المبعوث لنيل درجة علمية تلقت على الاقل 18 طعنة بسكين كما تلقى زوجها الذي حاول صد الهجوم عليها ثلاث طعنات. كما أطلق رجل شرطة رصاصتين على قدم الزوج ظنا منه أنه المهاجم.

ويرقد علوي علي عكاز في المستشفى في دريسدن في حالة حرجة لنفاذ الطعنات الى رئته وكبده بحسب قول أقارب له في الاسكندرية ويقول أطباء في دريسدن ان حالته حرجة فعلا.

Saturday, July 4, 2009

576) In Love & Loving II !

It is soooo good to the extent that I can't even comment!
Mohaly

البعض نحبهم
لكن لا نقترب منهم ........ فهم في البعد أحلى
وهم في البعد أرقى .... وهم في البعد أغلى

والبعض نحبهم
ونسعى كي نقترب منهم
ونتقاسم تفاصيل الحياة معهم
ويؤلمنا الابتعاد عنهم
ويصعب علينا تصور الحياة حين تخلو منهم.

والبعض نحبهم
ونتمنى أن نعيش حكاية جميله معهم
ونفتعل الصدف لكي نلتقي بهم
ونختلق الأسباب كي نراهم
ونعيش في الخيال أكثر من الواقع معهم


والبعض نحبهم
لكن بيننا وبين أنفسنا فقط
فنصمت برغم الم الصمت
فلا نجاهر بحبهم حتى لهم لان العوائق كثيرة
والعواقب مخيفه ومن الأفضل لنا ولهم أن تبقى
الأبواب بيننا وبينهم مغلقه...

والبعض نحبهم
فنملأ الأرض بحبهم ونحدث الدنيا عنهم
ونثرثر بهم في كل الأوقات
ونحتاج إلى وجودهم ......كالماء ..والهواء
ونختنق في غيابهم أو الابتعاد عنهم

والبعض نحبهم
لأننا لا نجد سواهم
وحاجتنا إلى الحب تدفعنا نحوهم
فالأيام تمضي
والعمر ينقضي
والزمن لا يقف
ويرعبنا بأن نبقى بلا رفيق

والبعض نحبهم
لان مثلهم لا يستحق سوى الحب
ولا نملك أمامهم سوى أن نحب
فنتعلم منهم أشياء جميله
ونرمم معهم أشياء كثيرة
ونعيد طلاء الحياة من جديد
ونسعى صادقين كي نمنحهم بعض السعادة

والبعض نحبهم
لكننا لا نجد صدى لهذا الحب في
قلوبهــم
فننهار و ننكسر
و نتخبط في حكايات فاشلة
فلا نكرههم
ولا ننساهم
ولا نحب سواهم
ونعود نبكيهم بعد كل محاوله فاشلة

.. والبعض نحبهم ..

.. ويبقى فقط أن يحبوننا..
.. مثلما نحبهم

جبران خليل جبران

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

575) 1st of July !

I love and wait for the 1st of July every year, this time it is not because it reminds me of special one but I have always scheduled something important on that day every year since 1990! I think it works when you want to create your own special days. .

Mohaly

P.S. If I lived till July 2010, I will celebratethe consistency of succeeding in creating an event every year for 20 years

Monday, June 29, 2009

574) Non-Productive Outings!

Quick and simple question:
Why are most of our outings (at least in Cairo) non-productive ... (eating out,..antakha)?!
Mohaly

Saturday, June 27, 2009

573) Good Bye Pop Legend !

Although Michael Jackson hasn't been around for almost a decade, but I think he has contributed one way or another in shaping part of the artistic personality of my generation (1970s). The word pop-music is directly linked to MJ in my mind. I think MJ in western music, and Amr Diab in arabic music were the music icons of our generation.

This guy has lead a misrable life, specially the last 10 years. I don't know why did I feel that, but I felt "makbos" when I heared the news, but when I started reading the readers comments in the the Arab website, I was furious! People are soooo shallow and mainly fighting if he will go to hell or heaven as if they have "tawkeel" from God to decide about that.

If you liked MJ, just feel sorry and keep his songs; if you don't then just ignore the whole thing, but please don't play "God"... listen to his song "Allah Rahim"!

Mohaly

Thursday, June 25, 2009

572) Personal ::: Khabteteen fel Ras!

sweet messages
nice emails
care and interest
from 1 side..

too much care..
daily asking..
from 1 side.

no not the same person..

one day both of them confessed that they love me!!
I have never said or made any signs to any, how come? and both on the same day!

What did I do wrong?

Mohaly

Saturday, June 20, 2009

571) How much is "Too Much"?!

How much money is enough?
How much money can make people satified and not worried?
What can someone do with 20 billion that he can't do with 10 billion?

Is the answer: "Infinity"?
Then it is pointless! as you will never reach your goal and be a slave for your "wants" rather than "needs" ...
very confusing... how much is "too much"?

Mohaly

Saturday, June 13, 2009

570) Why is it hard to be CLEAN ?!

I realized that all the precautions to avoid Swine Flu are simply about "BEING CLEAN" and I also realized that the danger in Egypt is not because of the flu itself as much as not having the "being clean" culture.. I kept on thinking and I wondered Why aren't the majority of the Egyptian people in the 21st century clean? what have led to this? If the religions tell us to be clean, and all creatures care about being clean, so why aren't we? why are many of us:





  • throwing garbage?



  • spitting?



  • even pissing in streets?



  • not washing hands?



  • not washing teeth even once per day?



  • not showering every day?




  • not cleaning after us in public toilets?



  • smelling awful? and many other examples..



  • I am not talking about everyone but in 3 non-successive days I counted the people I saw and this was the result:
    • Day 1: have seen/met 76 .... 21 clean, 55 doing one or more of the above.
    • Day 2: have seen/met 53 .... 23 clean, 40 doing one or more of the above.
    • Day 3 (weekend): have seen/met 35 .. 17 clean, 18 doing one or more of the above.
    so clean is always the minority!
    My question again, WHY? and what led to this?
    Mohaly
    (busy detaching a gum from my shoe!)

    Wednesday, June 10, 2009

    569) The Egyptian Dreams !

    Have a deep look on the below information, and let me know what do you think...
    What does it tell you about Egyptians in the 21st century?
    Mohaly


    أكد استطلاع حديث للرأي حول احلام المصريين أن56.9 % من الشعب المصري يحلم فقط بالستر وان 41.4% يحلمون بالصحة.
    وكشف الاستطلاع عن ان 84.6% من المصريين يحلمون بتثبيت الأسعار و73.6% يحلمون
    بتطوير التعليم
    .
    وأن77.6% قالوا انهم لا يحلمون بشيء.
    وكانت المفاجأة ان 1.5% من الشعب المصري يحلمون بالفوز برئاسة الجمهورية.
    جاء ذلك في بحث تم استعراضه خلال المؤتمر السنوي لمركز البحوث الاجتماعية والجنائية وأجري على 3 آلاف مواطن في 20 محافظة يمثلون مختلف الفئات.
    وأظهر البحث أن مسألة الفقر والمرض من أكثر المشكلات التي تشغل تفكير المصريين بنسبة %67.
    ورفض 82% من المستطلعة اراءهم فكرة الهجرة للخارج.
    وعلى الصعيد السياسي أيد 71% استمرار العلاقات مع إسرائيل وطالب 13.2% بإلغاء معاهدة السلام.

    المصدر: صحيفة الجمهورية

    Sunday, June 7, 2009

    568) Love & Signs !

    This is a beautiful video about how love can change our lives even through simple signs. I think TRUE love is a filter that holds back all the negative feelings and only passes the beautiful side of life.



    Enjoy
    Mohaly

    P.S> Romantic People will cry from the overwhelming passion.

    Thursday, June 4, 2009

    567) Thank You Obama ... What is Next?

    I am writing this while Obama is finishing his speech. I have to admit that the speech is integrated, impressive, & inclusive.
    I am glad that I witnessed such historical moment, and I do really thank Obama for this great overwhelming speech ... However, it is now Time for Action from both US & Muslims, or else .. kol speech wentom taybeen!

    Mohaly

    Monday, June 1, 2009

    566) Islam: Quantity or Quality?!

    Take a look at this video produced as a wake-up call to save the west from the expected domination of Islam in less than a generation. My questions is: Do we measure the success of Islam in the number of its followers or the quality of life we produce to the world?
    If we - muslims- became the largest religion in the world by 2015 as expected, is this a good or bad?! I guess the answer depends on what these new muslims have to say to the world. If it is peace and accepting others then that is good news, but if it is terrorism and Qaida-like muslims, then that is terrible news. I hope that we can have a role in putting things in the right place and let the world know the true meaning of Islam, and they took the first step... Obama's visit next Thursday, but that is another talk...
    Mohaly



    Saturday, May 30, 2009

    565) El 7okoma wel Gama3a !

    For the first impression you may think that this is a political post about the government and el ekhwan, but actually it is about wives!
    In short: 
    1. Why do a significant number of Egyptian men when they talk about their wives, they say: El 7okoma or El Gama3a? 
    2. Why don't they just say Meraty?!!!

    Mohaly
    back in cairo..

    Saturday, May 23, 2009

    564) Their Laughter, & Our Tears!

    How can their laughter, bring us close -actually into- tears!

    Would you please thank God and be statisfied with what you have... 

    Be ambitious and try to get more but consider the more as a bonus. Your life shouldn't be planned on the bonus, you happiness shouldn't depend on the bonus. Don't let yourself go after the temptation of endless power and money, and know that with everything you get, there is something you let go of, so it is better to let it go yourself!

    Real Happiness is in giving, not only getting!

    Mohaly

    Sunday, May 17, 2009

    562) FUN ::: A Tale of Two Girls !!

    Last week, Tamer was in Cairo and we had breakfast together in Cilantro. We were sitting close to the restroom. While we were sipping our coffee we found 2 girls (early 20s) going together into the restroom (single restroom)! At this point we weren't paying much attention.
    Then they spent more than 20 mins together, and when 2 little girls were bored from waiting, they started knocking on the door, till it was partially opened. The little girls was kind of astonished for 10 seconds, then looked to each other and left quickly!!!! Now, we were really paying attention!
    Then when the 2 girls were leaving, another 2 girls were entering and passing by the restroom, and gave the first couple a VERY weird look!! At this point we went nuts wondering what is going on and we missed!!

    Tamer and I were really wondering about:
    1. Why the hell 2 girls go together to a single bathroom?
    2. What did the 2 little girls see and made then run away?
    3. Why were the entering 2 girls looking at them this way?

    P.S. Please don't tell us it is non of your business coz it is a public place, and it seemed that we were the only people who didn't get what is going on! 

    Mohaly

    Thursday, May 14, 2009

    561) How much do you Love yourself ?!

    I was wondering, how far do we love ourselves?

    Do we love it more than anything in the world?
    Do we love it to the extent that we can sacrifice anything for its sake?
    Do we love it so much but less than other things that we can sacrifice ourselves for?
    Do we love as we love other things?
    Do we love it the least?
    or Do we love it Not?

    What is right? ... if you love yourself so much you will be accused of being selfish and if you don't love yourself, you won't be able to give love to others.. I personally see that we should love ourselves first, and build on this love to develop winning relations with others; i.e loving ourselves but not on the expense of others..

    Mohaly

    Monday, May 11, 2009

    560) Fathers Endless Love!



    Fathers are a huge blessing from God. If you still have your's, make sure that you make him happy coz he deserves it.

    P.S. On his birthday today, I miss my dad veryyyy much...

    Mohaly

    Saturday, May 9, 2009

    559) Obama Chooses Egypt !!

    What does it mean that Obama after more than 100 days of thinking choose Egypt to address and reconnect the Muslim world? 

    Does this mean that the US see a potential in Egypt to rise and take its abdicated role again?

    Does this mean that the US will ignore the authoritarian ruling issues that were the main point of conflict with the Bush admin.?

    Does this mean that Egypt will be the bridge between the East and West? 

    Last and not least; does this mean that we will have June 4th as a vacation?! as having the US president in Cairo means 1 thing: COMPLETE PARALYSIS and it is better to stay home. Ya Rab make them decide to do it in Sharm :)

    Mohaly

    Thursday, May 7, 2009

    558) The Female Rules When She Rules !!

    Although it is fun to read but I stopped at it for a long time, and I told myself that if most of my audience are females, they can help me to know if that is true or not!!
    Mohaly

    I have got the following on email; FEMALE RULES:

    1
    . The Female always makes THE RULES. 
    2. THE RULES are subject to change without notice. 
    3. No Male can possibly know all THE RULES. 
    4. If the Female suspects the Male knows all THE RULES, she must immediately change some or all of THE RULES. 
    5. The Female is never wrong. 
    6. If it appears the Female is wrong, it is because of a flagrant misunderstanding caused by something the Male did or said wrong. 
    7. If Rule #6 applies, the Male must apologize immediately for causing the misunderstanding. 
    8. The Female can change her mind at any given time. 
    9. The Male must never change his mind without the express, written consent of The Female. 
    10. The Female has every right to be angry or upset at any time. 
    11. The Male must remain calm at all times, unless the Female wants him to be angry or upset. 
    12. The Female must, under no circumstances, let the Male know whether she wants him to be angry or upset. 
    13. The Male is expected to read the mind of the Female at all times. 
    14. At all times, what is important is what the Female meant, not what she said. 
    15. If the Male doesn't abide by THE RULES, it is because he can't take the heat, lacks ackbone, and is a wimp. 
    16. Any attempt to document THE RULES could result in bodily harm. 
    17. If the Male, at any time, believes he is right, he must refer to Rule #5

    Saturday, May 2, 2009

    557) The Flu Century !

    If you noticed; since the start of this century, we have been dealing with a new flu or respiratory disease or epidemic every couple of years: Sars, Chinese Flu, Bird Flu, Swine Flu.... Tab ne3mel eih!

    I am not a doctor and I don't know why does such diseases happen, but I am really worried about our ability in Egypt to contain it.

    Rabena yostor!

    For Q&A about Swine flu : http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/30503177/

    Mohaly

    Wednesday, April 29, 2009

    556) Women Treatment in Egypt !

    I am wondering why didn't you discuss such important topic that was raised by Mona in post 553, I am re-publishing it again for discussion...
    Mohaly

    Mona said:
    I have a burning question that I cannot hold in any longer, so I am just going to ask it anyway. The bad treatment of women in Egypt has been making the international news for awhile. I mean it is to extent that they are starting to warn female tourists of the danger they will be subjected to during their stay in Egypt.
    Do you think it is an exaggeration or it's for real?

    Monday, April 27, 2009

    555) Thank You God !

    Thank God for everything...
    Thank God for granting me good health..
    Thank God for granting me thinking mind.. 
    Thank God for granting me good friends..
    Thank God for granting me a loving family..
    Thank God for granting me great students..
    Thank God for granting me supporting clients..
    Thank God for granting me amazing readers.. 
    Thank God for granting me the ability to love and be loved...
    Thank God for granting me the feeling of being missed that drives me to come back and get in touch with the most real part in me ... My Blog and its lovely readers and followers...
    Welcome back dears :)

    P.S. It is mere coincidence that this post about God gifts is no. 555 (khamsa we khemesa).
    P.S. 2: For those interested in knowing the PhD status, I have good news :)) My dissertation was accepted and hence my PhD is granted verbally, and I am waiting for reciving the degree officially within the coming 2 weeks. (bardo mere coincidence with 555)!

    Mohaly