Nobody likes to admit they are wrong. It has to do with human psyche and upbringing. If a person is raised in a negative environment then it is the norm to never speak up. Today most people like to be politically correct, and of course they will never rectify a wrongdoing just in case they step on someone else's toe. Bottom line is kol wa7ed biye3mel bi2aslu we deenu.
الكبر هو السبب مثلاً ، الكبر منع إبليس من السجود لآدم و الكبر منع إبليس من الإستغفار لذنبه إبليس عارف إنه غلطان و لكن الكبر منعه من الإعتراف بالحق
لو الإنسان وصل للنقطة اللى يعرف فيها إنه غلطان و يستمر فى غلطه لإنه أكبر من إنه يعترف إنه غلط فهو سواء بوعى أو غير وعى ماشى فى طريق إبليس اللى هو كائن بائس عايش بلا أمل لإنه مصيره محدد من يوم ما ركب دماغه ، أقصى أمله إن عدد أكبر يمشى فى طريقه الغلط يمكن يبان إنه صح
إبليس هنا مش بالضرورة إبليس ، إبليس هنا رمز لكل غلطان راكب دماغه و ماشى فى سكته الغلط ، اللى مش بالضرورة تكون حرام ، إبليس مجرد مثال عن الكبر
El Eman Yazeed wa Yanqos, so when I know the right thing, how and when to do it, but I don't, I know for sure that my faith isn't potent enough to behold a good deed.
My sister once attended dars deen for a famous preacher mn 3'eer zekr asmaa: Moez Mas3ood. When she came back we asked her what was the lesson about, she replied "ya3ny kan 3an el nass elly msh betet3'ayar w mesh beyt3'ayaroh leeh w keda." Fa we asked her "So, mesh beyt3'yaroh leeh?" She paused then said "Ellet mazaag!"
Dear all: it's 3o'clock in the morning&i can't sleep although i took a sleeping pill..guess why? i was thinking about the same damn question why? i used to know somebody and i could believe anything except that he was the source of lies and guess what he knows quite well that he's a big lair&really i'd like you to see him saying that it's a kind of rudeness saying that he's a liar(ya baga7tak ya a7'y)... what do you think tell me for god's sake why can't he simply say sorry i made something wrong? why?why?why? you either answer me or help me to go through this disaster or be nice and do both of them.........
Mary, I know what you are talking about because I also had such an experience some time ago. The thing is people who got used to lying they keep on lying as if it became a habit and in my case the person did not conceive it as lying. It has taken me some time to realize that I can't change that person so I tried to change myself; e.g. knowing that all what comes out of this person's lips are lies, that I shouldn't take them seriously and to hear from one ear and out from the other ear. It's terrible, I know, but I let go of expecting the 'sorry' word. It's a pity though but what can I do?
sometimes because of personal weakness- i mean you know that this "road" is wrong, would cause troubles, hurt yourself, etc but for some weakness you dont change to the correct "road". sometimes because we dont have the courage to admit our mistakes. soemtimes people arround you would hang you up if you do a mistake, fa for the sake of your survival- you just keep silent. bottom line is, one should never allow his weakness to hurt soemone else.
Noblese Thanks very much your words really help.i totallly agree with your oinion...i'm not better today i'm too miserable i hate lies&liars i'm trying hardly to go thrugh it but the word (why)is killing me
yes I do "D", i may sometimes take time to realize how wrong I am, but once I realize it I do apologize. I just did that last Thursday. But what I hate about myself is that I am not as good with the most important thing "relation with God" I don't say enough sorry, and I don't do enough acts to support me to ask for forgiveness. I think I am not in my best days when it comes to faith. Rabena yostor we yehdeeni or else it will be the BIG LOSS.
"The three hardest tasks in the world are neither physical feats nor intellectual achievements, but moral acts: to return love for hate, to include the excluded, and to say, "I was wrong". Sydney J. Harris
I guess no one, no matter how we hard we try, can always act right but the struggle is to do our best to "think", "feel", "act", "behave" & "speak" right!
God can give the strength because we're weak by nature.. weak against temptations, weak against our bad habits and nature, weak against our ego and arrogancy.. We just keep on striving to do the right thing as possible as we can...
Mohaly : what happens when u say mom Im sorry ? mom runs to u and takes u in her arm saying Ive already forgiven u . Right ? So what about GOD swt (ar7am alra7emeen)!!
ummm sometimes we know what we r doing in wrong bas we do continue... ya3ni 7aalwet rou7 :D aw tasweef asl fih 7aga '3alat is enjoying brdo.. aw ya3ni beneb2a shayfino mehs '3alat "awi" aw shayfino '3alat we '3alat kebiiir we ben7awel.. bas lessa weaker than stopping it....
el point bas aw el mosiba beteb2a lamma ben'3ayar asami el 7agat ... wen'7ali el '3alat sa7 we sa7 awii 3ashan nebarar! le2an hena bentouh ba2a... bentouh awiiiii
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Nobody likes to admit they are wrong. It has to do with human psyche and upbringing. If a person is raised in a negative environment then it is the norm to never speak up. Today most people like to be politically correct, and of course they will never rectify a wrongdoing just in case they step on someone else's toe. Bottom line is kol wa7ed biye3mel bi2aslu we deenu.
ReplyDeleteكده
ReplyDeleteI agree with Karima
ReplyDeleteand the inner self is lazy and sometimes not serious enought
الكبر هو السبب
ReplyDeleteمثلاً ، الكبر منع إبليس من السجود لآدم و الكبر منع إبليس من الإستغفار لذنبه
إبليس عارف إنه غلطان و لكن الكبر منعه من الإعتراف بالحق
لو الإنسان وصل للنقطة اللى يعرف فيها إنه غلطان و يستمر فى غلطه لإنه أكبر من إنه يعترف إنه غلط فهو سواء بوعى أو غير وعى ماشى فى طريق إبليس
اللى هو كائن بائس عايش بلا أمل لإنه مصيره محدد من يوم ما ركب دماغه ، أقصى أمله إن عدد أكبر يمشى فى طريقه الغلط يمكن يبان إنه صح
إبليس هنا مش بالضرورة إبليس ، إبليس هنا رمز لكل غلطان راكب دماغه و ماشى فى سكته الغلط ، اللى مش بالضرورة تكون حرام ، إبليس مجرد مثال عن الكبر
like karima, amina and shaimaa mentiond. Consequently, since we have mind to choose, therefore we'll be asked in the hearafter!
ReplyDeleteI guess it's a matter of faith?
ReplyDeleteEl Eman Yazeed wa Yanqos, so when I know the right thing, how and when to do it, but I don't, I know for sure that my faith isn't potent enough to behold a good deed.
Example: El-Fajr prayer, some stories!
I like your space awy!
yes the faith plays a big part, I experienced that myself.
ReplyDeleteIt is really hard to keep the faith at one level though.
Thanks Ibhog & Karima and welcome to the blog :)
Just Realized that yesterday was the birthday of our follower H.A.W
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday :)
cause sometimes doing the wrong thing is easier, more fun than doing the right thing
ReplyDeleteand as u said... its all about personal strength
My sister once attended dars deen for a famous preacher mn 3'eer zekr asmaa: Moez Mas3ood. When she came back we asked her what was the lesson about, she replied "ya3ny kan 3an el nass elly msh betet3'ayar w mesh beyt3'ayaroh leeh w keda." Fa we asked her "So, mesh beyt3'yaroh leeh?"
ReplyDeleteShe paused then said "Ellet mazaag!"
So True!
I also believe it has to do with being modest, humble, grateful, caring ...
ReplyDeleteDear all:
ReplyDeleteit's 3o'clock in the morning&i can't sleep although i took a sleeping pill..guess why? i was thinking about the same damn question why? i used to know somebody and i could believe anything except that he was the source of lies and guess what he knows quite well that he's a big lair&really i'd like you to see him saying that it's a kind of rudeness saying that he's a liar(ya baga7tak ya a7'y)...
what do you think tell me for god's sake why can't he simply say sorry i made something wrong? why?why?why? you either answer me or help me to go through this disaster or be nice and do both of them.........
Mary, I know what you are talking about because I also had such an experience some time ago. The thing is people who got used to lying they keep on lying as if it became a habit and in my case the person did not conceive it as lying. It has taken me some time to realize that I can't change that person so I tried to change myself; e.g. knowing that all what comes out of this person's lips are lies, that I shouldn't take them seriously and to hear from one ear and out from the other ear.
ReplyDeleteIt's terrible, I know, but I let go of expecting the 'sorry' word. It's a pity though but what can I do?
Hope you are feeling better today.
sometimes because of personal weakness- i mean you know that this "road" is wrong, would cause troubles, hurt yourself, etc but for some weakness you dont change to the correct "road".
ReplyDeletesometimes because we dont have the courage to admit our mistakes.
soemtimes people arround you would hang you up if you do a mistake, fa for the sake of your survival- you just keep silent.
bottom line is, one should never allow his weakness to hurt soemone else.
Noblese Thanks very much your words really help.i totallly agree with your oinion...i'm not better today i'm too miserable i hate lies&liars i'm trying hardly to go thrugh it but the word (why)is killing me
ReplyDeleteDo u say u r wrong Mohaly when u r !
ReplyDeleteFor me it takes a while sometimes , but I do admitt "I m wrong" its not that hard
yes I do "D", i may sometimes take time to realize how wrong I am, but once I realize it I do apologize. I just did that last Thursday. But what I hate about myself is that I am not as good with the most important thing "relation with God" I don't say enough sorry, and I don't do enough acts to support me to ask for forgiveness. I think I am not in my best days when it comes to faith. Rabena yostor we yehdeeni or else it will be the BIG LOSS.
ReplyDelete"The three hardest tasks in the world are neither physical feats nor intellectual achievements, but moral acts: to return love for hate, to include the excluded, and to say, "I was wrong". Sydney J. Harris
ReplyDeleteI guess no one, no matter how we hard we try, can always act right but the struggle is to do our best to "think", "feel", "act", "behave" & "speak" right!
God can give the strength because we're weak by nature.. weak against temptations, weak against our bad habits and nature, weak against our ego and arrogancy.. We just keep on striving to do the right thing as possible as we can...
Mohaly : what happens when u say mom Im sorry ?
ReplyDeletemom runs to u and takes u in her arm saying Ive already forgiven u .
Right ?
So what about GOD swt (ar7am
alra7emeen)!!
hmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteummm
ReplyDeletesometimes we know what we r doing in wrong bas we do continue... ya3ni 7aalwet rou7 :D
aw tasweef asl fih 7aga '3alat is enjoying brdo..
aw ya3ni beneb2a shayfino mehs '3alat "awi"
aw shayfino '3alat we '3alat kebiiir we ben7awel.. bas lessa weaker than stopping it....
el point bas aw el mosiba beteb2a lamma ben'3ayar asami el 7agat ... wen'7ali el '3alat sa7 we sa7 awii 3ashan nebarar! le2an hena bentouh ba2a... bentouh awiiiii