May be the most important "want" is love...This may surprise many women but men like to love and they like very much being loved in return.....
Men are used to the love and care by their mothers, and when they are adults they want to continue on having that (from their partners) and adding the physical love as well...
It is not easy to find a loving woman and it is very noticeable how many men try and hang on when they think they have found their Miss Right....
I personally see that love is the fuel of any relationship whether it comes before or after marriage...
Mohaly
Really interesting!! Men want love!! I thought men aren't capable of love. They might want it but they are not capable of giving it in return.
ReplyDeleteteftker ya3ny bernameg 7ayaty elly 3ayshah nos banat masr dah 3ashan men want love and el banat mesh bet3raf te7eb? wala 3ashan women give love and men conquer territories?!!
I agree, love is the fuel for any relationship bas mafeesh 7aga esmaha love after marriage or before marriage love is love. mafeesh 7aga esmaha gawaz based on mind or on heart dah kalam bey2oloh Ossama Mounir 3ashan el banat elly bet3ayat fi el radio and beyrawegloh kol father and mother shayfeen bent-hom, and 7ot ta7t bent-hom di khat a7mar kebeer, betboor or betntehy sal7eyeteha. Love is love and it is different than the respect, appericiation, and gratitude elly beyegy bel 3eshra el 7elwa. Love is love and it is not related lel ta3awod. Love is like hitting on crack, you get addicted from the very first moment, what you describe as love after marriage is like el 7asheesh, you might enjoy it and seem to be addicted but lel asaf it is dispincible and it takes you a life time to really get attached!!
Is it really hard to find a loving woman?! sada2ny it is the easiest thing enak tela2y wa7da te7bak, bas el mohem mesh enak tela2y wa7da te7bak el mohem enak lama tela2eeha matzhadsh fiha, which is mostly the case. Men hang out with many women and seem to be in love with them and usually end up breaking their hearts, and el 7ega el gameela lel break up enty 3omrek ma 7abeteeny. keda all of a sudden Mr. Right beyt7awel yeb2a Mr. God 3ashan ye2ool en wa7da bet7eboh or mesh bet7eboh le mogarad enoh he changed his mind or enoh aslan was testing waters.
Mohaly, enta 2alebt 3alya el mawage3 :(
bas speaking of love and what men want, how do men define love. ya3ny as far as it is so hard to find a loving woman, el loving woman di shaklaha eh?
I personally see that love is the fuel of any relationship whether it comes before or after marriage...
ReplyDeleteانا موافقة جدا مع الكلام ده
يا شيماء هو في اية بالضبط هو انتي متحاملة كدة لية علي الجواز و الحب و الرجالة؟؟؟؟؟؟؟؟؟؟ هما آه عايزيين كسر راقبتهم و خرم عيونهم الزايغة بس صوابعك مش زي بعضها و مش كل الرجالة خاينة و عايزة الحرق
فرفشي كدة و عملي نفسك مش واخدة بالك;)
mohaly
ReplyDeleteشيماء
عايزاكم تزوروا مدونتي و تقولوا رايكم فيها اية
و طبعا الدعوة عامة للي يحب :)تحياتي
7alwtak ya Mohaly :))))))))
ReplyDeleteHello Shahd el kalemat :)
ReplyDeleteya benty mesh mota7mla 3ala la el gawaz wala 3ala el regala :) The thing is mawdoo3 sawab3y elly mesh zay ba3daha dah 7a2ee2y bas ma7desh yenker en kolaha sawabe3 :) ya3ny fi menha taweel, rofaya3, mohem we mesh mohem awy bas fi el akhier kolaha sawabe3 :)
ana mesh mota7mla 3ala el gawaz as it might seem, I just have views against ba3d el afkar el montashera, ana mesh ded el gawaz ana ded el gawaz el 3'alat :) el gawaz elly beykoon nategtoh set mahwoosa betgry wara el 3eyal we ragel bara el biet dafen nafsoh fi el sho3'l ta7t she3ar en heya di el donia ma3 en el 7a2ee2a en el etnien ma2horeen. ya3ny fi el wa2t elly el mafrood el gawaz is a support system it fails to provide the simplest forms of safety.
As for love :) I am a great believer, meen 2al eny mota7mla ded el 7ob, ana ma3a el 7ob fi kol sewaroh we ashkaloh :) But I like calling things be2asameeha :) and I like defining el asamy abl ma asamy el 7aga :) ya3ny love is the most undefined term 3ashan keda fi nas keteer betsamy emotions keteer love. momken mn bab tasbeer el nafs, we sa3t mn bab el ektena3 we sa3at mn bab 3adm el ma3refa. fi nas el e3gab 3andaha love, fi nas el physical attraction 3andaha love, fi nas el 3eshra el 7elwa 3andaha love. In the sighs land lama kol el a3rad betatshabah el tashkhees el awaly dayman beykoon it is love, and the more foggy it comes the more people are certain that it must be love.
The only thing I can never understand how can two persons who share nothing on the emotional level get married and then start knowing each other and start implanting emotions because the exit sign is usually hard to reach?! People have been trying to convince me eny I can do it, bas I just can't :)
ha7awel a3mel nafsy mesh wakhda baly :) el mara el gaya ha3ed le7ad 1000 abl ma2ool el regala ashrar wel gawaz mn 3'ier 7ob is legal prostitution!
انتي معاكي حق في موضوع ان كل واحد بيفسر الحب بمزاجه اعجاب و يشقلبه لحب ولا اي حاجة من اللي انتي قلتي عليها
ReplyDeleteبس المهم في النهاية كل واحد سعيد باللي هو مقتنع بيه ولا لا
في ناس بتعيش و تموت و هي فاكرة ان الحب اللي عايشينه ده هو الحب الاول و الاخير لكن ما بيكونش حب بس بيموتوا و هما سعدا و عرفين انهم بيحبوا بعض و هو ده المهم هما مابسوطين ولا لا
I guess I will have to take some of the things I said back, maybe men are capable of love. The fact that the might not love us women the way we want to be loved never meant that they are not capable of love.
ReplyDeleteIt is so hard to give men the credit bas in a second thought ektashaft eny 3amalt nafs el 3'alta elly 2olt en men do, I turned myself to Miss God and 2olt enhom mesh bey7ebo ...
today el bashreya fakadet 3osnor mohem mn 3anaser el generlization en makansh aham 3onsor 3ala el etlak :(