Sorry for the title but it is in the core of what I wanna say!
I always wondered why do bitches (not necessary hookers, any kind of bitchy attitude) get what they want, while wives don't get it with the same ease (if they can get it aslan)?
Why do men become able to pay double what they planned for a bitch, and think twice when they want to get an expensive gift to their wives?
Is it "shatara" from the bitch, or "khayaba" from wife, or the problem in both men and women?!
Mohaly
The reason behind that imho is the same reason why relationships go boring after a while. Wife is his khalas, she's not going anywhere. As for the side-dish, he has to prove himself to her to have her attention and beat other "johns" to her. I guess so ya3ni.
ReplyDeletecoz el bitches -lamo2akhza- know how the man thinks and the shortest way to his decision making process but wives donnot put themselves in their husband shoes,
ReplyDeletewe feen tamer, he is the one expert in such topics :)
ReplyDeleteana geet :)
ReplyDeletethe same difference between full timer job & who is working per hour... heheh!
one for long term & the second per job!
aiwa keda ya mohaly etkalem fe 7aga nefhama hehehehh
cause wives after marriage became anything but a wife
ReplyDeleteloose their femininity
and men want always to feel the femininity and softness of women ...
A lot of men choose a wife based on qualities different than what they fantasize about, sexually.
ReplyDeleteDependable partner, good mother, socially acceptable, etc.
while if he interacts with a woman he's sexually attracted to, hence becomes weak under her "spell", he loses most reasoning, and gives in to his attraction.
Cause men get board faster than wives changes, women needs to keep man interested and keen for what next, this why bored wives losing against fluffy an kinky bitchy behavior, this doesn't mean a wive to behave like bitch, but to know how to keep her man quite busy thinking of her in fantasy ways
ReplyDeletegood point ya Usama
ReplyDeleteI think part of the man no matter how serious he is wants to be pampered even in a childish way, and when he suddenly find what he was getting -and actually looking for more when married- is vanished after marriage he feels fooled and starts (consciously or unconsciously) seeking it outside.
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